Age 33. Three years after we decided on "open marriage" and 10 years together.Apt-hotel in Rome near Forum. Many diplomats on temp assignment. Met 50something man in elevator.Govt official down from Milan for a month Said he liked Americans. Eyed me a lot (am not bad-looking) Next 2-3 days met, chatted, had drinks in bar. That night all went out about 10 Fixed my self up as much as possible Small posh cafe for a little supper."Did we want a little adventure?" Of course. Drove to area near outskirts. (Rome not very big). Private club: nude dancers. Then to private room. Small stage with curtain;small tables in front of banquettes along wall.Mandatory Champagne. Curtain rose. Two nude couples appeared. Proceeded to do all the things active nude couples do in private. Ernesto put hand on my bare thigh (v short skirt).Went further up,smiled as he felt me responding. Smiled back. Returned to his apt. Danced with both. E fondled my breasts to get husband's reaction. H smiled approvingly. All (not much to start with)clothes came off me. Lot of fondling. H very amused. Taken to bedroom.Received one of the better fucks of my life.Came out. E thanked me and my husband. Next eve voluptuous brunette arrives at our apt. Says she is a gift from E for both of us. Flabbergasted. H delighted. I not into that at the time, so just watched. Never before ever seen him so happy. Over next 10 days, E fucked me 4 times. Sent 2 different girls to occupy H while I was in Es apt. (obviously he had knowledge about the hooker situation in Rome but as he said he liked Americans-- alot). Night before we left, H sent me to Es apt to thank him. Did so till 5AM! A very memorable holiday! Corresponded for 2 years, but never managed to get together again.